Monthly Archives: January 2021

Stepping into our Big Woman

I would like to share something with you. Something that changed everything for me. A while ago I was talking with a male friend of mine, who was in my opinion bragging a bit about the many women he used to date at the same time. He said something like “I dropped one off at…

Choose Love over Fear

The world around us is changing fast these days. Restrictions are pouring down on us from our governments in ever increasing quantities. ‘Fear this, fear that, do this and, for the love of God and your fellow man, absolutely don’t do that!’ seems to be the mantra of the public world these days. How can…

LIFE with(out) HER

I’m one of these men who find it particularly hard to commit to a woman. It is not that I cannot seem to make up my mind or heart between all these lovely women with whom I could share something romantic, no, the difficulty of my choice lies between me being in a relationship with…

ALL IS WELCOME

I grew up in a family where emotions and feelings were not suppressed but most of the time freely expressed. It was okay to be sad, it was okay to be angry, it was okay to be frustrated, cranky or to be even hysterical at times. We didn’t have to pretend all was well when…