My main priority lately is Pleasure. Yes pleasure!
I discovered that pleasure is what sustains me. Its what makes me feel alive. It is what makes my energy flow and let me move and see the world from a joyful and juicy space. It helps me to get out of my mind and deeply connect to this beautiful body. Yes Pleasure is what literaly turns me ON and keeps me going.
Funny thing is that actually since I became single I really started to reclaim and OWN my pleasure. Maybe for the first time in my life! Simply because there was no one else to give it to me. No more making love etc. No one to Please, but myself. So i started to discover other ways to cultivate pleasure in my life. A beautiful journey of self love that is still unfolding…
I make pleasure and feeling good in my body and soul my first priority now.
Pleasure really helps you to not stress and worry, but instead relax, be open, be radiant, be beautiful and feel Super Alive 🤷♀️.
First of all by creating a time and space everyday to connect with myself. And really commit to it! Busy or not busy, tired or grumpy, kid around or not. Just doing it 🤷♀️!
What really enhances the amount of pleasure in my life is starting the day with for example massaging my head, my face, my neck and then stroking my entire body with love and appreciation.
Or Dancing, following the flow of my body and energy. Without shame. Without holding back. Really dropping in. Allowing both my rawness and beauty to express itself.
But also walking in nature can bring me so much pleasure, smelling the wet grass and the trees, feeling the Earth underneath my feet…mmm.
Swimming naked in the cold sea and feeling the tingeling sensations over my entire body.
Buying the food that I really like to eat and fully enjoying it when it enters my mouth and I experience the taste…
The list is endless honestly. There is so much pleasure availible to us when we choose to tap into it.
The most obvious form of pleasure is of course self-pleasure. A topic that can feel a bit awkward and uncomfortabel to talk about. I realised within myself and also by talking about it with others how much shame there is around this. Maybe time to change that?!
Personally I was never so much into it because I always had boyfriends that I thought were fulfilling my needs. Until I realised they were not. I just knew there was more to it..
About a year ago I discovered the Jade Egg practice and that really changed my view on pleasure, self pleasure and the immense amount of pleasure that I can experience as a woman (without a men). Since a couple of months I made this ancient practice part of my daily self love practice. And f*ck, it keeps on opening whole new Universes to me.
The Yoni Egg practice I feel is something every Woman should integrate in her life. Why settle for less if you Can become your own best Lover!? Trust me, It Will change everything!
If you have no clue what I am talking about, but you are curious to know more; let me know in the comments and I will write a post about the jade egg practice next time.
Also I would love to hear from you ‘How you cultivate pleasure in your life’. Lets learn from each other!
Wishing you all a lot of Pleasure in these ‘stressful’ holiday times 🎅🌟💥Hope you can create that moment for yourself and just ENJOY!